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Mad Men Watch: Dirty Laundry

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SPOILER ALERT: Before you read this post, spray on your Aqua Net and watch last night's Mad Men.

I'll kick things off with a question I don't really have the answer to: what does Don Draper want from Suzanne Farrell?

As she pointed out to him herself earlier, this is an unusually reckless relationship for Don, with a far higher chance of his getting caught than some of his past affairs. (Which suggests that on some level that itself is a motivation.) Suzanne is a gorgeous woman, of course, but he meets no shortage of gorgeous women. She's intelligent and soulful, but she has a kind of idealism that you might think would rub the ultimately conservative Don the wrong way, as suggested by their pillow talk. "Do you feel bad about what you do?" she asks him (which is a pretty sanctimonious thing to say even if it's prompted by Don's cynical description of his own job). "Nobody feels as good about what they do as you do," he answers.

As I said, I have no answer, but there is something in Suzanne's idealistic goodness that seems to appeal to Don differently from his earlier affairs that we've seen. Midge, the artist, was a kind of counterculture opposite to him, but she seemed much more arch and ironic a foil than the earnest Miss Farrell. Rachel was independent; Bobbie was powerful. Suzanne, like all those women did, pushes back against him in a way that he seems to enjoy, but here--as we see him get involved with her epileptic brother, Danny--he seems more willing to breach his usual boundaries.

It makes me wonder if--to use the requisite Sopranos comparison--this is Don's Amour Fou: not a brutally destructive relationship like Tony's with Gloria, but one where Don gets too involved and gets in too deep. And Suzanne's pointedly, faintly threateningly seeking him out on the train and holding his hand in public (reminiscent of his old war buddy's briefly spotting him as Dick Whitman on the train)--not to mention his service leaving messages for him at her apartment--reminds us that Don has not followed his own advice to Sal: he is not limiting his exposure. This woman is not willing to be ignored.

The irony, then, is that Don does get caught out in this episode--not for this new affair, though, but for an old deception he could have been found out at any episode since the first season. (When Betty found the keys in the laundry--that eternal fount of infidelity revelations--I thought at first it would somehow lead to her learning about Suzanne.) And yet after a devastated reaction, after sitting at home and stewing, while Don is on another certainly suspicious late night with "Connie"--nothing. She's moved to call Henry after the hang-up call (she knows too well what hang-up calls mean), but doesn't want to move things forward with him. She is still trapped between rage and passivity, between asserting herself and sulking, and after her anger briefly boils over with Don on the phone ("What's wrong. What's wrong?"), she simply says that she doesn't feel well, then puts on her pretty dress and lets Don show her off.

The rest of the episode, while there were some important moving-the-pieces-forward moments at the office, seems better dealt with in the bullet points. But I'll ask you: how long can Betty sit on what she knows? What do she and Don want now, and how do they aim to get it?

Now for that hail of bullets:

* The Paul-and-Peggy subplot seemed a bit disconnected from the rest of the action but it still played out nicely--and not just for the OMG moment of Paul pulling out the still from the Maidenform campaign (right?) and unbuckling. (Besides being creepy, the scene recalls the "Maidenform" episode, in which Paul trumped Peggy on a bra campaign--which, as his masturbatory moment underlines, was essentially a male fantasy--in which her mail co-workers largely disregarded her input.) There have often been hints that Kinsey, for all his creative affectations, simply is not the idea man he thinks he is, and the point is doubly underscored when he is shown up by Peggy on an account that he can't write off to her being a woman. Or rather, maybe he is an idea man but unlike Peggy--who agilely seizes on his proverb "The faintest ink is better than the best memory"--he is unable to recognize an idea when he has one.

* By the way: who thinks he actually had a great idea that he failed to write down, and who thinks he was just drunk and thought his idea was great? (It reminds me of the old joke about the writer who has a dream in the middle of the night and, convinced he has come up with the story idea of a lifetime, scribbles it down before he falls back asleep. In the morning he wakes up and reads what he wrote: BOY MEETS GIRL.)

* Having said that, I was surprised that neither Peggy nor Don reacted to Paul's story as if it were a "dog ate my homework" excuse, as he calls it, but sympathize as if they'd had the same misfortune before.

* Also: nice touch having Don snack on Suzanne's date-nut bread during Kinsey's Aqua Net presentation.

* So for the big office news: Sterling Cooper is on the block! If I knew more about business, I'd have more conjecture about how a sale might eventually affect the remaining workers at the company. In the meantime, the way the news came out simply made me feel sad for Pryce--used by his bosses and resented for it by his wife--and how he didn't see that this was the point of his budget-cutting and margin-raising in the first place.

* The episode was titled "The Color Blue," which came from Don and Suzanne's philosophical pillow talk about perception and subjective reality. It's a subject with strong overtones in this episode (and really, in almost any episode of any good drama, which is going to involve people's different perceptions of the same reality), but I was surprised it was played so prominently at the top of the episode. This sort of placed a 500-watt arrow pointing at it as a prism through which to see the rest of the episode, which is unusual for a series that's usually more subtle about its themes. On the other hand it is an interesting one, so what are your thoughts: whose divergent views of the same reality were most interesting in this outing?

* Early in the episode, we see Betty reading The Group, Mary McCarthy's sardonic 1963 bestseller about a group of Vassar grads who struggle later in life to get their reality to match up to their aspirations. Sounds like certain people we know, although it also points up how, though we occasionally see Betty chatting with neighbors, she's never seemed to have any close support group of female friends.

* Peggy's burping into the microphone while recording her ideas was a great random moment, especially for her self-conscious, "Sorry about that, Olive."

* Bert Cooper's remark that 40 is "the average lifespan of a man in this business" brought me back to Don's medical examination at the beginning of season 2, when his doctor warned him about his high blood pressure. Have we heard the last about that?

* When Betty opens Don's drawer of secrets, the first thing we see are stacks of $50s—escape money, it looks like. Then those family photos. For somebody who has gone to such lengths to destroy his past, Don still feels a pull to hang on to them—the same pull, maybe, that moves him to press his help on Danny? In Suzanne's brother, does he see his own?

* Finally, it's good to see Lois can get a second chance. Just no driving on the job!

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  • 1

    Since you ended with it and it's fresh in my mind - when I saw Lois wake Kinsey up, I literally shouted "are you serious?!"...How Weiner can keep HER around while continuing to trample on/write off some of my most beloved characters, I will never know...

    This leads me into my next point. This episode for me was simply too much. In the past few weeks, we've seen Mad Men continually reassert the dominance of the rich white male at the expense of women and minorities. A common theme for the show - and the era - but it's getting to be a little too much for me to bear. Sal is groped, and fired by an insensitive hypocrite. Joan - who, lest we forget, once had a job other than secretary at Sterling Cooper, but was deprived of it by a white man who (we are led to believe) will never do as good of a job as she did - is dragged out of the office (by her pride, but that's all they've left her with) and into a department store. And then there's Betty. For all the talk of Betty as house-cat, I still remember the Betty who was once so impulsive and reactionary that she shot a neighbor's bird with a BB gun. Where is that Betty? Her father has died, if anything this should inspire in her a desire to do for herself. But instead, she seems to become more hopeless. There was a time when the only way Betty could let herself go back to Don was by having anonymous sex with a stranger in a bar. And now she simply falls back into routine? I don't get it...perhaps you could explain?

    Also, I felt Don seeing himself in Danny and struggling with his seeming inability "to do things right" - whether its this time, or anytime. Danny is actually, permanently removed from society by his epileptic fits - whereas Don removes himself by means of his lies and deceit. When Don tells Danny it's not too late, I saw him wishing this for himself moreso than for Danny. If Danny can't rejoin society, what hope is there for Don? Who also considers himself to be permanently removed - given the extent of his deception regarding his past.

    Finally - Achilles? Was there something more there? I know about the man's heel, but that's about it...was that a shrewd reference to something?

  • 2

    Seriously though...Lois?!? How is she still there?! She hacked off a man's FOOT?!...not to mention, her overall unattractive personality...she is essentially Mad Men's equivalent to Gail the Snail from It's Always Sunny...next time Kinsey is looking for something and she hovers over him with the phrase "It's always in the last place you'd look!"...someone needs to salt her.

  • 3

    Really looking forward to seeing what Betty does now that she's opened the box... I imagine that she's feeling a mixture of rage and relief -- he is so inscrutable it must be nice for her to have *some* insight into his actual life, even if she can't piece it together yet.

    It was also nice to see some of the action return to the office. I love Lois! And nice use of afterwork hours, Paul. I'm curious, though, if we're actually to going to finally see the British takeover pay off. So far it hasn't amounted to much -- like what happened to the competition between Peter and Ken as head of accounts? And are we ever going to get any glimpse of Ken's interior life?

    Just some random thoughts.

    • 3.1

      "And are we ever going to get any glimpse of Ken's interior life?"

      I hope not, actually. I kind of like the idea of having one character without any deep emotional turmoil. He's just Ken Cosgrove, Accounts.

  • 4

    Peggy and Don being OK with the "I forgot to write it down" line to me was out of character, but I figured it was just to show how well Peggy gets Don, because she knew that that would work.

    I love Kinsey. I just love that character.

  • 5

    My view is that Don is genuinely in love with Ms. Farrell. The way he looks at her in bed is very different then he has ever looked at any of the other women he has had affairs with. He almost has a Dick Whitman look on his face, in a good way.

  • 6

    Sterling Cooper is for sale, Betty sees what's in the drawer, and Don's brings his extracurricular activities home (or, around the corner). It's like everyone is getting the most perverse form of what they think they want.
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    Messers. Sterling and Cooper were perfectly happy getting sold -- they didn't realize that they would remain on the auction block. Will the hard-won arrogance of the agency disappear? Maybe Duck's agency will buy them. Maybe Hilton will buy them.
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    Betty has always wanted to know Don's secrets. Now, she knows there IS no Don (or, she does if she truly understands what's in the box). Is she even legally married? She has seen her marriage teetering for a long while, now it's nonexistent.
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    Don wants freedom and Suzanne, crazy chick that she is, gives him sex and freedom. She doesn't care that he's married. But Don also wants to keep the facade of his life for the comforts it provides, like piles of cash to keep in locked drawers. And he's finally reached the point that he's arrogant enough to believe he can have both in the same neighborhood. His fantasy is the next to get blown to bits.
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    Be careful what you wish for -- it could be the soup in the fan.
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    This is all leading to some sort of, I don't know, violent climax? The last 2 seasons ended quietly. Too many people are on the edge at this point for Season 3 to end the same way. Maybe the explosions and implosions wil coincide with Nov. 23? Maybe Nov. 23 will be the event that pushes everyone over the edge?

  • 7

    Could Achilles' appearance be a little nod to the almost-perfect tragedy that's being crafted by MM's writers? Certainly Don is a near-perfect tragic hero?

  • 8

    Hmmm. . . did Paul have a great idea? I don't know, but I think I know what idea he had: whenever Achilles mentioned that at his family gatherings all the makes would look up at the mention of the name Achilles, I had a vision of a Western Union comercial. A Western Union delivery boy (as he would have been at the time) enters a crowded room and announces, "Telegram from Western Union," and all the faces turn toward him expectantly--everyone looks forward to (or dreads) receiving that telegram; it's a momentous event.

    Paul's a bit of an affected jerk, and not very good at his job, apparently.

  • 9

    Am I the only one who didn't assume that Betty put everything in the drawer together? I thought her outrage was just over discovering that Don had been married before and hadn't told her. As I recall, she turned over one photo (without Don) and saw names; when she looked at a photo of Don by a car (which might have said "Dick" on the back), she didn't flip it over. I'm just not so sure she put together that Don has assumed another man's identity. I mean, it's pretty far-fetched, so why would she? She could still be upset without having that piece of the puzzle.

  • 10

    Miss Farrell has been perplexing to me. I get the feeling that maybe she wants to be more than Don's usual girl. She wants Don to meet her brother, she calls him (I thought she was the one who hung up), and shows up on the train just to talk to him. I don't think she knows exactly what she wants, but she's pushing Don who is reciprocating.

    Don is taking plenty of risk, but he looks around on the train the make sure no one recognizes. After being with all these other women that have not been that attentive to him, maybe Don is willing to take chances and step outside his comfort level. And with everything going on at work, it's possible is reaching the point where he doesn't care anymore and with Betty's revelation looming, there is bound to be lots of bad things happening. Full review of the episode.

    http://th3tvobsessed.blogspot.com/2009/10/review-mad-men-season-3-episode-10.html

    • 10.1

      I believe that Miss Farrell is going to become a real problem for Don--the unhinged, "she seemed so emotionally healthy" kind of problem.

  • 11

    The hammer in the face obviousness of the color blue discussion/theme was because this episode was written by the too-green-for-her-job Kater Gordon, who is actually the subject of some industry gossip as it was reported she's leaving the writing staff only a few weeks after her Emmy win (with Matt Weiner). As for the episode and this season, the main issue for me is that I'm getting a pit in my stomach at how much of a jerk Don has become and my frustration with the Suzanne Farrell affair which has bloomed into a full-blown relationship, which like others said, seems like just too much of a risk for Don to take (plus it's repetitive from the Rachel Menken arc). I have my own psycho-analysis of Don and review on the ep., please read and comment if you are so inspired...
    http://tinyurl.com/ylyoz5

  • 12

    Oops, here's the proper link. Trust me, my review will change your life. You may even find yourself trying to reclaim your past just like Don, Betty, Paul, Danny Farrell and Bert Cooper...
    http://tinyurl.com/ylyoz5z

    :-)

  • 13

    Dan: It was reported more than a week ago that Kater Gordon was fired: http://news-briefs.ew.com/2009/10/11/fires-writer-kater-gordon/.

  • 14

    Yes, I know, I give the original source link to Nikki Finke in my post, which explains how it's not clear that she was fired, she could have just left. Which makes sense since she just won an Emmy so she probably asked for a pay bump. Here's my own report on it: http://wp.me/pCufw-69

  • 15

    I know I'm late to the thread with this, but one more note about this episode: the way that Lane gets Bert to come to the party. It was another so-subtle manipulation - at the end Bert seems to have gained new respect for Lane using the velvet glove as adeptly as Bert did with Don.

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